Thursday, December 01, 2005

“Wonderful & Refreshing”

Sometimes it happens that we come across people who are easily aberrated. I m talking about some short-tempered people to whom I’d like to call ‘wonderful & refreshing’ (just4me).
This is for the first time I m very much excited to share my critical views about a particular kinda people… I don’t do it usually, but I think sometimes there’s no problem in doing so…
That’s why some people like this if read further would probably find this text as weird. Better I recommend them to have patience & keep their temper, or else do not read further.
Now let’s start……………………..

Some dialogues:

XYZ is very good friend of ABC. They live together. One day XYZ was not in a good mood. ABC didn’t mind actually & was doing his own work. He said something to XYZ, “why don’t you keep things at right place dear? It seems good if things are well arranged.”
But he got a weird response:
“When do You keep things at right place? Keep your suggestions to yourself. I know what seems good or what seems bad. You need not to tell me. Mind your own business & let me mind mine.”


We often have such person around us, at our home, college, or workplace, to whom its sufficient to say only one sentence against their will and the loudspeaker automatically gets on… I mean they start blowing their anger for whatever we’ve just said, no matter what did we mean to say was really negative or fair positive!
We don’t expect such irascible responses. Do we? No! absolutely not.
They behave like this for their own reason, whatever that may be, but the situation may turn interestingly if we just think for a moment what Our response was…
Anyone of the following could it be:

1. I just said the simple thing, but why do u act like this, what’s wrong with you? (A sheer increase in our temper. Now if that person again retort in previous manner, situation becomes worse)


2. If you are annoyed with something keep it to yourself, why are you throwing your anger at me? (We have words like this)


3. We say nothing & think, “nothing can happen to this sod”


4. We say nothing but see how easily & beautifully he gets annoyed of something & how wonderful is his outcry. We just guess to ourselves what would be his reply if I say this & that to him… what next?... then what next? & thus we get really a fun when it comes true. The moment just refreshes us, as there’s no other way ‘cos that person is not sharing his problem with us but just getting annoyed… hence we cannot do anything else than that.


Did u like the last one? I think some people already do this. It works actually, but it just requires some patience & fun loving character in u.
I m not saying that we must always have this kind of behavior, but if one person’s mood is not good, then isn’t it a good thing to prevent another’s? This trick will be useful to hold on a positive energy in the surroundings. And probably would help that angry person to calm down.
But if not done carefully, it may harm your image. Hence, it will be a good practice if we keep it to ourselves only. So do not let other person know what you are thinking about him, just say nothing, don’t let him feel that you are making fun on him. Just do whatever you were doing before that conversation. It may possible that that person will understand the unsaid msg (i.e. he’s acting very funny), & soon chill out. Although we are doing so just to keep ourselves away from the pool of anger and make the situation as cool as possible...
If he, the wonder one for us, says anything, it’s just giving a jerk of refreshment, (if we take it in that way).
That’s why whenever anyone does such lost tempered activity before you, at any time, which might be precious for you, can become a hilarious moment …
So don’t worry, be happy. Such wonderful people are just for our refreshment… and thats why they are "wonderful & refreshing"...ain't they?